Re: band director/student


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Posted by Ken on October 07, 2003 at 03:58:11:

In Reply to: band director/student posted by concerned on October 06, 2003 at 21:27:40:

You are in a tough place. My suggestion to you is that you be very, very careful...

Have you considered inviting your friend for a coke or something and ask an open ended question, "How's things?" and then giving her the chance to talk. Please don't put her in a place to act defensive by accusing or even asking about her friendship to the director. Remember, she is a student not on equal footing with the director.

Be there for your friend. If anything is going on, she will need your friendship and support. If nothing is, she still has your friendship.

Good luck.


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